In the realm of Sisterhood we all have experience, some we may describe as negative or positive, some experiences we Cherish, and some still sore, enlivening us to believe true sisterhood cannot exist and that the fewer friendships we share in the better. For many of us we continue to experience, often facing the challenges and the questionings of how and why, we or she, treat me or her, in this way or that...I’ve come to some Wonderfull realisations on this journey that continues to excite and Expand my overstanding and experience of true Divine Love, which is Unconditional. With this guide we’ve been shown that true Sisterhood is about seeing, Trusting and experiencing the Divine Reflection in each other; knowing that our Sisters are a Divine aspect of Ourselves that we are coming to Learn. Moving to a place where we can Connect to that at all times, remaining loyal only to that Divinity, rather than slave to our emotions, which have become subject to programming. Programming’s designed to encourage us to betray Ourselves and each other, to look sideways, up and down, attaching ideas and judgements to each other’s Spirit. This does not mean we are not to feel, our emotions can evolve to a true Gift of Empathy when navigated in Truth. However for many of us they are currently contaminated with untruths, and we have come here to break these boundaries.
Everything that shows up around us is our Divine Reflection, a reflection of our internal world projected externally. All the sisters we have in our lives are a Direct Reflection of aspects of Ourselves. As we have all come here to heal, they will focus on areas that need Healing in different capacities and polarities. It is in the same way children are born to us to place in front of us the lessons we have not completely solidified internally, with the child in front of you, you have no choice but to face it. We are all each other’s Teachers. The same goes for our Masculine counterparts, our Brothers who have come to show us the other side of our polar Existence so that we can become One again.
There is a common symptom of this mental disease that most of us have or continue to experience.I am Better than her, superior, higher or I am Lesser than her, inferior.
Usually manifesting in ways as I look physically better than her / she looks better than me, or I can do this or that better than she can/ she can do it better than me.
Many of us may reject that we partake in this disease face on, however Truth is most Women have summed up their position in relation to another Woman within minutes of meeting Her, and this position can continue to change and grow in each other’s perception as the relationship Journeys. It is completely understandable for these personalities to thrive in an environment where all the images bombarded at us encourage the need to feel better than the next as a source of confidence and Peace with self. After all, we live in a world where many go through extensive lengths to convert our bodies into designs we feel take us ahead in the race of acceptance. We also have extensive ideas on what a woman should be like, how she should behave with herself and others, what she should be doing by this age or that and the list goes on. These ideas and opinions serve as catalysts for judgement towards ourselves and others.
When we fully internalise the overstanding that the Sister before you is a Divine Aspect of yourself, you cannot be more or less than her. As she is you! And if she is before you, it concludes that she contains something Potent within her that is Dormant within you. This may be something that you need to strengthen or Enhance, or it could be something that you wish to Negate or subdue. Many times it is both in One. She is your Teacher as you are hers, and you have Manifested each other so you can move through this next stage of Learning.
We have all come to carry out Divine Glorious works, to do our part in the coming of One. Therefore there can be no superiority or inferiority, as no part is bigger or lesser than the other.
Healing..
When there is a Sister around displaying what we perceive to be negativity, we must realise that She is a Divine Reflection of a part of us, meaning we have some format of this inside us. This may be difficult to accept at first, though within the Law of Attraction like attracts like; if one is not of our Vibrational frequency there would be no way they can hold a Frequent position in our Lives, as we would repel each other, creating distance. Change of our external environment must begin Within, locating that part of your Self that needs to Change.
When it comes to the state that being in proximity to another Sister begins to feel repulsive, we must see that what she represents in us has Truly served its Purpose and is ready to Leave. Learning how to deal with her Peacefully is Learning how Transition our self Harmoniously, as she is the external application of the end to this part of our self.
We are All Connected Allways, we must remember when friendships distance physically we are still Connected. If you choose to let go of a relationship that no longer Serves you, or Change the proximity and tolerance level, you not only bring in the Change and Growth needed in your Evolution, you also grow and share it with Her, who also needed to remove Herself from the position she Existed in. Maybe She needs more time to work this out, and will go on to continue this symptom with other Sisters on Her path, or maybe this is also the ending of this design within Her to. It is possible to Heal Together in Peace and Overstanding of your Transitions here.There is no loss as it is not possible to lose what we allready have. What we perceive as loss of friendship, is our minds attachment to other people in an attempt to feel whole. This Evolution is Overstanding that we are All, and we have come to show each other this; bumping and injecting each other with this Truth in what can be Perceived as both painful and pleasant ways.
For that which we wish to remove, subdue or lesson the potency of that is existing in a friendship, we must let it go in whatever capacity is Appropriate for True Healing. This also means we let Her go so she can also Explore the next level of her Divinity too. Then We can begin to Open our Hearts to the next stage of our Evolution, where many other teachers await...
There may always be others that we feel do not understand our heart, our spirit, our love, our pain. Others that question our Integrity because they cannot understand our choices, especially those birthed out of emotional reactions. It is not our job to prove it to them, or to care. We have everything We need to continue to Evolve and Share in Peace and Light, knowing that though we feel some may never Truly understand us, subconsciously they do and always have. They are simply playing their part in All and will be much better off just having known you.
Peace Love & Joyous Healing...
Pure Feminine...xx